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The Grays Harbor Sheriff's Office on Tuesday asked for the public's help in finding a missing 5-year-old girl who law enforcement authorities suspect may have been the victim of foul play.

The parents of Oakley Carlson, who lives in a rural area just outside of Oakville, Wash., are considered persons of interest in connection with the girl's disappearance and were being held at the Grays Harbor County Jail, according to Undersheriff Brad Johansson.

Deputies say the girl’s parents Jordan Bowers, 32 and Andrew Carlson, 36, were both being held on suspicion of manslaughter. A judge set bail at $150,000, citing the severity of the allegations in the case.

“Based on the unusual circumstances of the missing child, not knowing her whereabouts and no one has seen her in several days and no one knows her condition, we felt that is in the best interest of the case,” said Johansson.

Investigators said it was not clear when the little girl was last seen, but on Monday a concerned citizen asked law enforcement officers to conduct a welfare check on Monday.

Johansson said the parents were located but they could not find the girl.

Deputies said the parents did not know where the child was, and neither could they provide reasonable explanation as to where she was.

“You can’t see a little girl like Oakley and not be emotionally involved in the case,” said Johansson. “We’re really concerned for her safety and her well-being and we just don’t know what that is at this point. We are definitely hoping and praying for the best outcome, but realistically we’re ready and fearing the worst as well.”

Deputies said initially the parents were charged with obstructing a law enforcement officer because they were not cooperating in the investigation and obstructing investigators.

No charges have been filed against the parents.

However, the judge gave prosecutors until Friday to review more evidence to decide if charges will be filed.

Deputies said the parents are known to them.

According to Bowers’ criminal background, she has been convicted of five felonies including drugs and theft.

Detectives are hoping they will have some answers about Oakley’s whereabouts by Friday.

“Until we can get a lot of those questions answered, we don’t have those answers ourselves,” said Johansson.

Detectives consider the circumstances surrounding the child's disappearance suspicious.

Detectives and search and rescue workers are searching the home and property where Carlson lives. The investigation is in its initial stages.
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She looks like one mean bitch
 
Sadly I am going to guess young Ms Oakley is in a shallow grave in the Olympic. Mountains.
Going to guess mom and pop here got fuckednup on meth, Oakley being unsupervised probably had an accidental death, and these two wizards of the meth pipe took her into the mountains.

Now his ass looks too lazy to actually dig a decent grave, so she will be barely covered with dirt/rocks/gravel/branches...and the animals have gotten her.


OK, this is all speculation, but when a parent says they can't remember the last time they saw the child, kinda screams drugged out
 
Former Foster Parents Speak Out
Neighbors said they had not seen Oakley in quite some time. One neighbor said they noticed the school bus had stopped coming around. According to the Grays Harbor Undersheriff, a concerned citizen called in a welfare check, which led to her being reported missing.
Deputies, state patrol and the FBI are now involved in the investigation. Neighbors said that the Bowers and Carlson regularly fought and that a number of people have called 911 on the couple. Bowers, in particular, has a lengthy criminal history.
While everyone wants to know where Oakley is, though, the young girl’s former foster family is the most eager to hear news.

Jamie Jo Hiles, who raised Oakley from when she was seven months old until a week before her third birthday, said she feared that something bad would happen – but never this.

"We told them several times this wasn’t a safe decision," said Hiles. "We begged them – ‘please don’t let her go back, please don’t let her go back.’"

Hiles and her husband Erik said the decision to send Oakley back to her biological parents was rushed. They raised concerns about how she acted when she’d return from overnight stays.

The Hiles' also said they continued to contact Washington’s Department of Children, Youth and Families (DCYF) when they heard about issues with Oakley’s parents, though they never had contact with the little girl after November 2019.

"They made a mistake," said Hiles. "A big mistake. I told them in my last letter it was going to be on their shoulders if something happens to her.”
Other children in the home, according to the Sheriff’s Office, were located and safely removed.
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They dismissed what the foster family said because they thought they just didn't want to lose the baby girl that they had raised. This happens so much that the child is returned only to die fairly quickly afterwards. You would think that CPS would at least do a cursory check and not just dismiss it.
 
Oakley, who was raised by a foster family from age six months to three years, was eventually given back to her parents. Foster mother Jamie Jo Hiles told the outlet that the decision to send Oakley back was “rushed,” and unsafe.
“We told them [social services] several times this wasn’t a safe decision,” Hiles said. “We begged them – ‘please don’t let her go back, please don’t let her go back.’”

After 2019, despite contacting social services numerous times, Hiles and her family never heard from Oakley again.

“They made a mistake,” said Hiles. “A big mistake. I told them in my last letter it was going to be on their shoulders if something happens to her.”

This is why even if you do not like the bio-parents, as a foster parent you are better off trying to get along with them so that you may still have contact with the child.
 
The parents of a missing 5-year-old Oakville girl Oakley Carlson are facing a new charge as they remain persons of interest in the disappearance of their daughter.

Detectives recently discovered Jordan Bowers and Andrew Carlson had not been providing prescribed medication prescribed to their 6-year-old daughter as required by her doctor for approximately 15 months, according to a Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office news release.
The Grays Harbor County Prosecutor’s Office has since charged both Bowers and Carlson with second-degree abandonment of a dependent person.

“This is the only charge the suspects are being held on at this time,” said the sheriff’s office.

Bail was set at $150,000 for both suspects.
Detectives continue to seek information from anyone who may have seen Oakley Carlson, who the sheriff’s office says hasn’t been seen alive since Jan. 27, 2021.

“With all of the attention this investigation has gathered, they have not received any information that Oakley has been seen alive since that date,” said the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office in a news release.
The parents claim the last time they saw Oakley alive was Nov. 30.

“The parents have given no indication that Oakley is in the care of an adult and cannot account for her whereabouts or condition,” said the news release. “Investigators believe Oakley would be unable to survive on her own for this length of time.”
Law enforcement became involved when Oakville Elementary School Principal Jessica Swift contacted the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Department with concerns about Oakley’s safety, according to a detective’s report.

Swift reported there was a recent house fire at the residence in the 100 block of Bartell Road and, while she and fire personnel had contact with Oakley’s parents “almost every day” afterwards to provide them with support and supplies, Swift “never saw Oakley and began to worry.”

According to Swift’s report to police, Bowers told Swift that “Oakley had started the fire with a lighter on the couch,” and said the family “didn’t call 911 because they could not find their phones.”

The Carlsons were temporarily staying at a Tumwater inn after the fire, according to court documents.
In a report to the Tumwater Police Department, Swift reportedly said she had one of Oakley's siblings over for a sleepover on Dec. 3 and when asked about Oakley, the 6-year-old “became very upset, saying ‘Oakley is no more,’” according to a report from a Tumwater police officer.

When interviewed by detectives later, the 6-year-old initially said “she does not have a sister,” but later said “Oakley was her sister but she had not seen her in a long time.” She was reportedly silent for “one minute” when directly asked about Oakley, eventually saying “her mother Jordan told her not to talk about Oakley and that she had gone out to be eaten by wolves,” according to a detective’s report. When asked if Oakley was hurt, “she didn't respond and started to cry,” according to the report.

A Tumwater police officer was dispatched to conduct a welfare check on Oakley at the inn where her parents were staying, located within the 1600 block of Southwest Mottman Road, just before 10 a.m. on Dec. 6.

The officer knocked twice before Bowers answered the door with a 2-year-old boy in her arms, according to the detective’s report.

The room was orderly, as the family was packing their personal items to move out of the hotel room, and the 2-year-old “had clothing on and appeared nourished,” according to another officer’s report.

When asked about Oakley’s whereabouts, Bowers reportedly said “Oakley is with her mom,” but when the officer asked Bowers to confirm Bowers was Oakley’s mom, Bowers said “yes.”

The officer asked again where Oakley was, and Bowers reportedly “turned to look in the room and asked someone I didn't see, saying ‘Oakley is at your mom and dads.’”

Carlson then came to the door at the officer’s request, and the officer asked him where Oakley was. “Andrew initially didn’t respond to the question,” said the officer in his report. When asked again, Carlson reportedly said Oakley was with his dad, but when the officer asked for the dad’s phone number, Carlson reportedly said he didn’t have his dad’s phone number and initially said he didn’t know his dad’s address, but eventually provided it.

Another officer contacted Carlson’s father, Fred, who “stated he did not have Oakley and had not seen her in almost a year,” according to the officer’s report. Officers later checked the address to see if Oakley was there. She wasn’t.

Officers contacted Child Protective Services to confirm Oakley was not in foster care and that she should be with her parents.

Officers returned to the inn to talk with Bowers and Carlson separately.

When an officer told Andrew that Oakley wasn't with his father, “Andrew’s demeanor was one of indifference or that he already knew the information that was being given to him,” said the officer.

When given the same information, “(Bower’s) demeanor was one of anger, and then she yelled, ‘I’m not going to answer any of your questions’” before going back into the hotel room, according to the detective’s report.

“She became enraged, yelling, clenching her fists, and refused to answer any further questions about the welfare or wellbeing of her daughter,” wrote another officer.

While leaving the hotel, an officer reported he saw a vehicle registered to Carlson and noted that, while the couple have four children between the ages of 2 and 9, there was only one child car seat in the car.

At 2:06 p.m. that same day, Swift called the police to report Bowers had called the school “and stated there was an emergency and she needed to come get (her 6-year-old) from the school.” School staff were ordered not to release the six-year-old to her mother, but “neither Jordan nor Andrew ever showed up at the school” to pick up their child, according to the police report.

At 3:31 p.m., an officer confirmed Bowers and Carlson left the hotel with the 2-year-old.

Officers followed them to their fire-damaged Oakville residence, where they were both arrested for allegedly obstructing a police officer.

A search of the residence revealed “clothing and toys for all of the children except Oakley,” as well as “blood splatter on the blinds near the front door, on the front door and a handprint on the wall in the downstairs hallway.”

Child Protective Services has since taken custody of both the 2-year-old and the 6-year-old, according to court documents. The documents don't specify who has custody of the 9-year-old, but only Oakley has been declared missing.

Bowers and Carlson were both booked into the Grays Harbor County Jail in lieu of $150,000 bail on Dec. 6 on a 72-hour hold for suspicion of manslaughter.

This makes it pretty safe to say that Oakley is no longer with us

In a report to the Tumwater Police Department, Swift reportedly said she had one of Oakley's siblings over for a sleepover on Dec. 3 and when asked about Oakley, the 6-year-old “became very upset, saying ‘Oakley is no more,’” according to a report from a Tumwater police officer.
When interviewed by detectives later, the 6-year-old initially said “she does not have a sister,” but later said “Oakley was her sister but she had not seen her in a long time.” She was reportedly silent for “one minute” when directly asked about Oakley, eventually saying “her mother Jordan told her not to talk about Oakley and that she had gone out to be eaten by wolves,” according to a detective’s report. When asked if Oakley was hurt, “she didn't respond and started to cry,” according to the report.
 
Investigators spoke to Oakley's sibling who said their parents told them not to talk about Oakley with anyone, according to court documents. Another one of Oakley's siblings told investigators their parents would put Oakley in the closet or under the stairwell, and they had witnessed Bowers beat Oakley with a belt, according to documents.

The sibling also told investigators they were worried about Oakley starving. The sibling said everyone got out of the fire at their home but Oakley, court documents show.

Investigators conducted a forensic interview with one of Oakley's siblings, who said they had not seen Oakley in a long time. They said Bowers told them Oakley had gone out into the woods and was eaten by wolves, according to court documents.

When the parents were questioned another time by law enforcement, Bowers became uncooperative and was arrested for obstructing an investigation.
 
Detectives have called off the search for missing 5-year-old Oakley Carlson, according to Grays Harbor County Undersheriff Brad Johansson.

The search for Oakley began on Dec. 6 after her school principal requested a welfare check on the child, after not seeing her for some time and after hearing disturbing statements from Oakley's 6-year-old sister.

The search for Oakley had been ongoing in early December, and detectives combed through the Carlsons' Oakville property.

Crews called off the search at the property after finding nothing.

"The search at the residence is complete and she was not located. Detectives are still actively investigating this case. There are no searches underway at this point," Johansson said in an email to FOX 13 News.

Johansson said last week that the likelihood of Oakley Carlson being alive is "not very good at this point."

He went on to explain that the time frame of when she was missing, her age and the fact that she does not appear to be in the care of an adult, does not make for a good outlook of the situation.

However, he said law enforcement will continue to investigate until they solve the case.

The last time her parents, Jordan Bowers and Andrew Carlson, claim they saw Oakley alive was on Nov. 30. It's unclear if Oakley was alive before or after the Nov. 6 fire at the Carlson home.

However, her grandparents claim the last time they saw her was in December of 2020.

Authorities say the circumstances of her disappearance are suspicious and Bowers and Carlson were initially taken into custody on investigation of manslaughter.

Since their arrest, they have been preliminarily charged with second-degree abandonment in connection to an incident involving another one of their children.

Johansson told FOX 13 that even if Oakley is not found at all, the parents could still face manslaughter or murder charges, but that would be up to the prosecutor's office.

If anyone has seen her within the last year, give detectives a call so they can better piece together a timeline of events.
 
The parents of missing Oakville 5-year-old Oakley Carlson have both pleaded not guilty to charges stemming from allegations that they neglected to give their 6-year-old child, Oakley’s sister, a doctor-prescribed medication.

While Oakley’s parents, Jordan Bowers and Andrew Carlson, remain suspects in Oakley’s disappearance, neither yet face charges related to the 5-year-old.

Prosecuting Attorney Jason Walker said he anticipates “there will be additional charges by the time this comes to trial” in April 2022.

Both Bowers and Carlson were both arrested on Dec. 6 and held for 72 hours on suspicion of manslaughter after law enforcement learned Oakley was missing, but without enough evidence to file charges, that case was dismissed on Dec. 9.

The new charges, second-degree abandonment of a dependent child, were filed that same day. According to court documents, the 6-year-old’s temporary foster parents contacted law enforcement on Dec. 7 for information on a medication the child needed. Law enforcement then contacted Bowers, who reportedly said “she’s not on any meds,” according to court documents.

The 6-year-old was initially prescribed the medication in question — an injectable growth hormone to prevent future physical impairment — in March 2018 while she was in foster care, according to court documents.

The child was returned to her biological parents by a judge’s order on Dec. 4, 2019, and Bowers and Carlson were instructed to maintain and administer the child’s medication as prescribed, according to court documents.

Bowers and Carlson reportedly properly filled the prescriptions and traveled with the child to doctor’s appointments through August 2020, according to court documents, but during a doctor’s visit in October 2020, the parents reportedly told the child’s doctor they hadn’t been administering the medication for two and a half weeks due to insurance issues.

Records indicate that, as of December 2021, it had been 15 months since the child was provided her prescribed medication.

“That is a situation that occurred because her health insurance carrier refused to pay for it (the medication), said it was experimental or something,” said the Bowers’ attorney Michael Nagle during Bowers’ arraignment hearing in Grays Harbor County Superior Court on Dec. 10 while arguing for Bowers to be released on her own personal recognizance. “She spent a lot of time trying to get that (insurance) decision overturned,” said Nagle. “This is a situation that’s been discussed in Dependency Court for months, and why it would justify suddenly putting her in jail, I don’t understand.”

Judge Dave Edwards denied Nagle’s motion for Bowers’ release.

Carlson’s attorney, Jonathan Feste, chose to withhold his argument for Carlson’s release until a later hearing.

Bowers and Carlson are being held in the Grays Harbor County Jail on $150,000 bail each until further notice.

A joint trial for Bowers and Carlson has been scheduled for April 19, 2022.

Edwards replied, “I have concerns that the trial can be completed in that period, but we can make adjustments as we get closer to that trial date and counsel will have a clear picture of the scope of the trial and the number of witnesses that will be testifying.”

An omnibus hearing to review the status of the case and go over what evidence will be needed for trial is scheduled for 9 a.m. on Jan. 31.
Timeline of Oakley’s Disappearance and Her Biological Parents’ Court Case


• Nov. 2019: Oakley leaves the care of her foster parents and returns to her biological parents, according to King 5 News.


• Feb. 10, 2021: The last time detectives with the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office can confirm Oakley was seen alive.


• Nov. 6, 2021: A fire was reported at the Carlson’s residence in Oakville just before 5 p.m. Andrew Carlson told dispatchers his 4-year-old (Oakley’s age at the time) had lit the couch on fire with a cigarette lighter and said he had put the fire out himself. Investigators later determined the fire most likely started in the microwave on the kitchen counter — not from the couch, as Carlson had claimed.


• Nov. 30, 2021: The date Oakley’s parents claim they last saw Oakley.


• Dec. 5, 2021: Oakville Elementary School Principal Jessica Swift contacts the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office with concerns about Oakley’s safety.


• Dec. 6, 2021:


• Approximately 10 a.m.: An officer with the Tumwater Police Department initiates a welfare check for Oakley and interviews Oakley’s parents in their hotel room.


• 3:31 p.m.: An officer confirmed Bowers and Carlson left the hotel with their 2-year-old and returned to their Oakville residence.


• 5:10 p.m.: Bowers is booked into the Grays Harbor County Jail for allegedly obstructing an officer and on suspicion of manslaughter.


• 9:30 p.m.: Carlson is booked into the Grays Harbor County Jail on suspicion of manslaughter.


• Dec. 7, 2021: Oakley’s sister’s temporary foster parents ask law enforcement about a medication prescribed to the 6-year-old, and law enforcement learn Bowers and Carlson had not been giving the child the medication.


• Dec. 9, 2021: The 72-hour hold on suspicion of manslaughter expires, and that case is closed. Bowers and Carlson are charged with second-degree abandonment of a dependent person for allegedly neglecting to give their 6-year-old daughter a prescribed medication for approximately 15 months.


• Dec. 13: Detectives complete their search of the Carlson family’s house and surrounding property.


• Dec. 30: Bowers and Carlson appear in Grays Harbor County Superior Court for the first time. Demonstrators gather outside the courthouse demanding answers about Oakley.


• Jan. 10, 2022: Bowers and Carlson both plead not guilty to second-degree abandonment of a dependent child. Trial dates are set for April 2022.
 
One father has pleaded to two felony charges relating to one of his two daughters.

Andrew Carlson has been facing multiple charges as his 5-year-old daughter, Oakley, has not been seen since Jan. 27, 2021.
Both Carlson and mother Jordan Bowers were charged with the abandonment of another daughter for not giving her the necessary medications.
The Gray's Harbor Sheriff's Office said the other daughter, 6, was in protective custody.

They say the medication is necessary for her physical wellbeing and puts her at risk for physical impairment that could eventually result in death.

Carlson was in court Monday morning and pleaded guilty to two counts of endangerment with a controlled substance, both felony charges.
 
The father of a missing 5-year-old is going to prison on charges related to his other two children, multiple news outlets reported.

Andrew Carlson was sentenced to one year in prison on two counts of child endangerment with a controlled substance on Monday, March 28, KOMO reported. He was given the maximum sentencing.

He had pleaded guilty to the charges earlier this month.

The child endangerment charges come after authorities discovered his daughter Oakley Carlson had not been seen in over a year.

Carlson and Oakley’s mother, Jordan Bowers, were arrested on Dec. 6, 2021, after a welfare check prompted the search for the child in Oakville.

The couple gave police information about Oakley that was “quickly proven to be false and misleading,” according to a criminal complaint. Carlson and Bowers had reported Oakley missing after police contacted them about her whereabouts, the complaint shows.

When police began looking for the missing girl, they discovered that her siblings had been exposed or ingested high levels of meth, KING-TV reported.

“I deeply regret my failings as a father. I haven’t done a lot of things correctly in the last seven years or so,” Carlson said during his sentencing, KXRO reported.

Superior Court Judge Katie Svoboda called the case “tragic” during the hearing and told Carlson it was his job to protect his children as their father, the outlet reported.

Bowers pleaded not guilty to the endangerment charges, and her trial is set for April 19, KING-TV reported.
 
Jordan Bowers, the mother of missing 5-year-old girl Oakley Carlson, was arrested for identity theft and fraud minutes after being released from prison on Sunday, according to the Grays Harbor Sheriff’s Office in Washington State.

Deputies said Bowers was released from the Washington Corrections Center For Women in Gig Harbor after serving her sentence for endangering two of her other children with drugs. Oakley's father, Andrew Carlson, was sentenced to 12 months in late March after pleading guilty to two counts of child endangerment with a controlled substance.

Oakley Carlson was last seen in February 2021, when she was 5 years old. Detectives have said Oakley's parents have not been cooperative with investigators.

On Sunday, the sheriff's office said it had submitted an investigation to the Grays Harbor Prosecuting Attorney's Office for identity theft and fraud, and prosecutors filed criminal charges.
 
I like them letting her out so she could have a slight taste of freedom and then snatching her back in. I can't believe we can't push harder on people when their children vanish. Especially in cases like this where its pretty fucking obvious there was neglect and abuse.

The fact that they were allowed to keep their other children long enough to further harm them is really fucked up. Imagine being those kids and hearing their mom say stuff like Oakley got eaten by wolves. The trauma of that. And you know she did it in a way to control them like a threat. Don't behave and wolves will eat you too type shit.

These kids tell their principal, give statements to police, and then get sent home again? They must have felt completely helpless and like no one would ever help them.

It can't be done this way. Reunification can be a good thing but in a drastic amount of those cases the parents just get better at hiding what they do to the kids. They don't change. And the kids go home to suffer.

You could take one look at these sweaty methed out freaks and know they shouldn't have kids around them. I feel incredibly sorry for the foster parents who actually loved her.
 
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Oakley Carlson disappeared from Grays Harbor County two years ago – though it was not until December 2021 when the search to find the young girl began.
According to court documents, Oakley’s sister was at a sleepover at the home of the Oakville Elementary School principal. When asked about Oakley, she told the adult: "there’s no Oakley."
Those who knew Jordan Bowers are looking at her in a new light. One-time friends are now frustrated, some even believe she sold her daughter.

"That’s what I think," said Tracy McGee-Mills, a one-time friend that now believes Bowers sold her daughter.
McGee-Mills was named as a victim in an identity theft and fraud scheme that’s landed Bowers behind bars.

Those charges shed light on Bowers gambling habits, and regular trips to casinos. Detectives in that investigation linked Bowers to cash withdrawals at a nearby casino, among other locations.

"She was so far into gambling you guys don’t even know! She lived for it," said McGee-Mills.
While McGee-Mills claims may seem unthinkable, she’s not the only one that believes them. A FOX 13 viewer offered a similar tip since Oakley’s disappearance – a tip that led to investigators interviewing another person that believed Oakley had been sold by Bowers.

Chief Paul Logan, who is heading up the Oakley Carlson investigation, told FOX 13 that they’ve been tracking the theory that Bowers sold Oakley since the very beginning. However, no tips have led to credible evidence.
Since news of Oakley’s disappearance broke in late-2021 the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office has received a number of tips from around the country of possible sightings. They’ve worked with agencies across the U.S. to look into each tip, none have led them to Oakley.
The landslide of tips is just part of the challenge surrounding the case. Investigators tell FOX 13 that a lack of information early on meant they were playing catch-up from the first day of the investigation.

Investigators had to pinpoint when Oakley Carlson went missing – a difficult task made harder with neither Bowers nor Andrew Carlson, Oakley’s Dad, working with them.
The reward for information on Oakley’s disappearance is now $85,000. Anyone with information is urged to call the Grays Harbor County Sheriff’s Office.
 
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