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A Texas mother is outraged after she put a sweet note in her 5-year-old son’s lunchbox, only to get a nasty note from the daycare in return.

The 5-year-old’s mother, only identified as Francesca, says her son has been going to Rocking Horse Day Care in Kingwood, Texas, for three years, and she never had any problems.

But on Tuesday, she made dietary changes for his lunch and wrote a note to be supportive, asking workers to “Please tell my son that his mommy loves him so much and that I’m thinking about him.”

"I do everything in my power to build my son up and make him feel good about himself because he is amazing,” Francesca said.

The note came back in the lunchbox that night with a message written at the bottom: “No! Put him on a diet and go away.”

“It took a minute to register what I even saw, and I just kept re-reading it, and I just stood there for a minute,” Francesca said.

The mother alerted the daycare about the incident. The director apologized, and after an investigation, the employee who admitted to writing the message was fired.

"The thing that upset me the most is this is bullying,” Francesca said. “To know a grown-up, who knows how hard life is and how mean people can be, can say something like that, especially about a child, is - they’re sick. There’s something wrong.”

The fired employee said they never intended for the mother to see what had been written.

Francesca is now trying to find a new daycare for her son.

"I put a lot of trust into this school to take care of him, and it just really hurt me,” she said.
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Could be, but, considering how much is being paid for the care some parents might expect reading a note to their kid wouldn't be too much to ask.
It's still not their job to reassure a child half way through the day that mommy still loves him.
It's also not their job to write snotty notes. That's up to the owner/manager's discretion to jerk fussy mom's chain.
 
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I'm gonna have to see how fat this kid is before much judgment. If the mother is choosing to form her child into a cow at age 5, I really do not care about the abusive twat's feelings whatsoever.

But yeah, whoever was dumb enough to write that needed to be fired for sure.
 
It costs $0 to be a decent human, if taking an extra minute/two minutes to read a child a short note of encouragement is THAT painstaking you take another minute to write a snarky remark, maybe childcare isn't the job for you. I'm glad they were fired, shame is they'll probably just find another daycare job.
 
Well, if every parent wanted a note read to their sweet pea it’d be a giant pain in the ass. Personally feel idiots like her are probably lousy parents and raise obnoxious kids and the worker was tired of the mothers constant bullshit, I’m sure with this mom it’s daily wants, needs and special attention
 
If someone wrote that about one of my kids, I'd seriously want to dropkick them :p
Are you totally obnoxious toward daycare workers?
I agree in a normal situation this would be uncalled for, I don’t know how many parents you worked with. I’ve worked with kids for over 12 years and there were plenty of parents I wanted to drop kick. Some parents were so obnoxious they actually embarrassed the hell out of their kids
I don’t see it written towards the child, I feel it was written towards the mother
 
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Are you totally obnoxious toward daycare workers?
I agree in a normal situation this would be uncalled for, I don’t know how many parents you worked with. But I have worked with kids for over 12 years and there were plenty of parents I wanted to drop kick. Some parents We’re so obnoxious they actually embarrassed the hell out of their kids

I've worked with children for over 20 years myself :D I've worked with city recreational programs, through the school board as an occasional teacher and in daycare centres.....while I agree there are a lot of parents that are "special", I honestly find that I had more issues with daycare workers that had no business working with children in any capacity. In this case, I don't find the mother was obnoxious or rude to the daycare or its workers...some dumbass wrote an inappropriate comment regarding her child and they got exactly what they deserved.
 
I've worked with children for over 20 years myself :D I've worked with city recreational programs, through the school board as an occasional teacher and in daycare centres.....while I agree there are a lot of parents that are "special", I honestly find that I had more issues with daycare workers that had no business working with children in any capacity. In this case, I don't find the mother was obnoxious or rude to the daycare or its workers...some dumbass wrote an inappropriate comment regarding her child and they got exactly what they deserved.
I have no issue with her being fired and we don’t know if there were daily issue with the mother or not
Maybe because I don’t understand the reaction without an issue with the mother :banghead:
 
I have no issue with her being fired and we don’t know if there were daily issue with the mother or not
Maybe because I don’t understand the reaction without an issue with the mother :banghead:

According to the article, the child had been attending the daycare for 3 years with no issues....so I was assuming there was nothing on the mother's side to warrant this kind of behaviour towards her child/herself. In all my years working with kids, I've only every had concern regarding 2 parents....one was just super rude on a consistent basis (not only to the staff, but to her own child)...the other one was a single mom and we were concerned about the child having proper clothing and food on a daily basis.
 
I think mom is a jerk because instead of taking the note to the business owner/manager and keeping it private, she also took her outrage to social media. And you know she's loving her hurt feewings now that she's gotten all this attention. She's pretending they hurt her child, but the employee was annoyed with her.
 
... [the mother] made dietary changes for his lunch and wrote a note to be supportive, asking workers to “Please tell my son that his mommy loves him so much and that I’m thinking about him.”
"I do everything in my power to build my son up and make him feel good about himself because he is amazing,”
What a weird fucking thing to do. Is the boy so fat that the mother wants the daycare workers to praise her love to her corpulent offspring to counter any sense of worthlessness he may feel being so obese?
 
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If I were this daycare worker, I'd just roll my eyes, throw the note away, and say I did it, just as requested. He's 4, he wouldn't understand Mommy's love being relayed to him thru another person, anyway. AND I consider it inappropriate to ask another person to do this for you. Are you so insecure about your kid loving you that you have to resort to notes to daycare workers to tell your kid that you love him?

Imagine the daycare worker walking up to the kid and saying Little Dumpling, your mommy loves you more than anything else in the whole wide world, Kid is gonna look at her like she just sprouted another head and keep playing.
 
Then the fired employee is really a dumbass in addition to not understanding the concept of "customer service".
Or love of children. As a daycare worker.
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Maybe mom will come here after googling herself and tell us we are monsters.
Which would pretty much describe it. Signs of the depravity. Of course, reading these crappy stories doesn't work wonders for a personality.
 
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