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Do you have a mental illness that affects your life?

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    Votes: 31 77.5%
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I mostly love my job. Most of my coworkers. Most of the pet owners. The euthanasia appointments make me really sad and that hasn't faded. It hits especially hard when it's a cat. That said, the funny ones are epic. One dog is being seen cuz he ate a whole groundhog. Another got into his Avon Lady owners sales bag and is covered in eye shadow lol. I have a few favorite regulars. A cool thing is we can bring our pets to work. That said, I find the practice irresponsible and a great way to get healthy animals sick.

My BP pill is working, down to numbers I haven't seen in 15 years. I'm still doing well financially. Cat and bunny are great. I'm seeing my mom on a regular basis and trying to be a good person. My opinions remain the same about certain members, but I don't care as much. I'm trying to be nicer, even to those I don't see eye to eye with. Which is good, since the site owner stated all comments go, except anything illegal. Hope all is well with those folks, but I really don't think about them often.
 
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Ok, so a lady called my workplace yesterday, minutes after her dog got hit by a car :( Unfortunately, we aren't equipped to deal with trauma type surgery and I had to direct her to an emergency vet. I really hope she made it, I kinda couldn't sleep or eat after that cuz I couldn't stop thinking about this poor dog, lady, and others involved. Ugh. I so hope she doesn't think the clinics that said they couldn't take her were just being mean. Ok, so, citizens of DD, does the average civilian know that hit by cars have to go to an ER vet?

Cuz, mine does handle smaller emergencies-broken bones, cuts that need stitches, euthanasia appointments. Apparently, nausea, vomiting, bad reactions to meds or surgical procedures, and diarrhea are also considered emergencies. I prayed for that lady and her dog-if anyone cares to do the same, or just send them positive energy, I would so appreciate it. I feel so awful that she may not understand that not every vet is equipped for that. I hope she at least calls back to tell us off so someone can explain it so she doesn't think we wanted her dog to die or something. I wish we could have helped.
 
Ok, so, citizens of DD, does the average civilian know that hit by cars have to go to an ER vet?
I would hope so.

Veterinarians specialize just as much as doctors with human patients do, from cat doc to small-animal to poultry to exotic birds to large animals. My veterinarian sent me to a different vet when I was looking for information on my chickens, and I didn't hold it against her.

--Al
 
I would hope so.

Veterinarians specialize just as much as doctors with human patients do, from cat doc to small-animal to poultry to exotic birds to large animals. My veterinarian sent me to a different vet when I was looking for information on my chickens, and I didn't hold it against her.

--Al
So, if you were, God forbid, in this womans' shoes, would you have known to go to the emergency vet?
 
So, if you were, God forbid, in this womans' shoes, would you have known to go to the emergency vet?
Most people will call their local vet first. Then will call a critical care. It's odd, but we do it with people too. Hence if you listen to some practitioners answering recordings "If it's broken, bleeding, or showing... call 911"

So even though the lady called you guys, she would have called the "ER" vet.
 
There are two 24-hr emergency vet clinics in the N Texas area. There may be more, but there are two that I know. I had to go to the one in Arlington once but I don't remember why, because it was probably 30 years ago. Your regular vet will send you to one if they don't have equipment and expertise for whatever it is or if it's after hours. The emergency clinics are definitely not cheap. The out-of-hours phone message at my vet says to contact one of those emergency clinics if they are closed or you have an emergency.
 
There are two 24-hr emergency vet clinics in the N Texas area. There may be more, but there are two that I know. I had to go to the one in Arlington once but I don't remember why, because it was probably 30 years ago. Your regular vet will send you to one if they don't have equipment and expertise for whatever it is or if it's after hours. The emergency clinics are definitely not cheap. The out-of-hours phone message at my vet says to contact one of those emergency clinics if they are closed or you have an emergency.
Our outgoing message says that, as well.
 
Two euthanasias today. I'm kinda glad it bums me out, cuz if it was people, it wouldn't. So, I care. I just wish the obnoxious pothead I work with was more respectful to the pet owners putting their babies down. She's not really an animal lover, it's just a job to her. Won't say anything about looks, cuz it doesn't matter in this field, as long as she's nice to pets and owners. She's not outright cruel, just unknowing? I guess? Ugh, glad I'm only stuck with her 11 hours a week. I got to play with a puppy small enough to fit in my pocket today, you can't beat that :) I do feel very lucky to have a job I care about. Reminds me how good my acting was, to fake this enthusiasm in places it wasn't real. Won't be working in a restaurant ever again unless I get 200 a day in tips. Cuz fuck it. I have no passion for food and can't be bubbly full time. Not without some.....um... chemical assistance. And I'm not going there again.
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Oh also, I'm on day ten of a mild covid infection, which is mostly gone. Guess I'm glad I got the vaccine. Not getting the booster, since I already got the employee bonus for doing so. It wasn't terribly bad, just physically gross. Judge if you will, but I'm not taking time off work at the first job I've cared about in a while for this. I get compliments on how well I'm doing every day and don't want to set that back. I DID technically give it to someone, but good luck proving it. Plus, she's back at work, crabby and slow as ever.
 
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Perhaps tell her you don't feel comfortable engaging in chit-chat on company time.
That puts her in notice as well.

They are nightmares, aren't they???!
It's like that with her about work related stuff also :(. She talks in circles before getting to the point of why she's in my area and what I have to do to get her out of it. Plus, she pauses every few words. She's a nice person, very knowledgeable about the field I love..... she's been with my employer for 44 years, so she's not going anywhere. I haven't been mean to her and am not planning to be, I just wish she came with a how-to manual lol.
 
So, anyone have useful advice on dealing with a coworker who's always on their phone, to the point of clients whining about it? Cuz I basically have to drop what I'm doing -usually work related-to catch up on her fuck ups? Desperate for help!
 
This article is from the employer's point of view, but maybe it will give you some ideas. Maybe your boss would like to see this.


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How to Deal With Overuse of Personal Cell Phones in the Workplace


As a small business owner, it’s normal to wonder how to deal with employee cell phone use. Due to the habit-forming, ubiquitous nature of cell phones, it’s important to address their inevitable presence and intervene when your employees are loath to put their devices aside — just as you must take action with the employee who always calls in sick. Below are a few tactics to help you exert some measure of control over cell phones in your workplace.

Face the Reality


Cell phones are here to stay. This means creating a “no texting while working” policy isn’t ideal. Ninety-five percent of Americans now own a cell phone of some kind, and family-friendly employers know that even though work comes first and foremost, personal devices are vital for employees who need to check in with their children and attend to important personal matters during the day.

Unless there are safety concerns, creating a “no cell phone use at work” policy can be perceived as punitive. In fact, posting a “mobile phones not allowed in workplace” notice will likely lead to morale problems. And although blocking cellular signals within your workplace may be a tempting solution, it’s not practical. Disabling Wi-Fi can impede your own business communications, and a cell phone jammer, which can effectively shut down signals throughout your business area, is not only dangerous, it is also illegal in the U.S.

It’s better to accept cell phones as a part of modern-day work life and establish policies for their use. As long as you enforce your “cell phone use at work” policies, you should see usage settle at levels that are reasonable for your business.

Set Limits


Chances are that you’re going to see an employee on their cellphone here and there. That’s why you’ll want to set limits or mobile phone restrictions at work depending on:


  • The nature of your business
  • Each employee’s job
  • The types of issues you’ve experienced

For example, cell phone use is typically prohibited under the following circumstances:

  • During meetings, training sessions and conferences
  • When employees are interacting with customers
  • In production areas and kitchens or while operating heavy equipment as cell phone use at work can present a safety hazard
  • While driving, except when a Bluetooth connection is available or when the driver is pulled over to the side of the road. (This is a requirement enforced by OSHA, the federal Occupational Safety and Health Administration, for which you are legally responsible as an employer.)
Your cell phone policy could also define:

  • When cell phone use during work hours is acceptable, such as during breaks and lunchtime
  • The frequency and length of calls permitted during working hours
  • If headsets are permitted
  • Where to store personal devices. Keeping phones out of sight, such as in a desk drawer, is an effective way to keep distractions to a minimum.
  • Appropriate use during business hours. For example, business calls and brief conversations or texts with family members may be okay, but playing games or downloading music is not.
Just make sure that the limits for your smartphone policy for employees are fair and flexible. While establishing a zero-tolerance cell phone policy isn’t the best route, you can always tighten up your policies if necessary.

Define Etiquette for Personal Cell Phones in the Workplace​


Not only do cell phones distract their owners, but calls can be especially annoying to the employees sitting close to the talker. These guidelines can minimize disruptions and help keep the peace, even when employees are on their phones:

  • Set cell phones to vibrate and ringtones to silent
  • Speak quietly
  • Keep calls short
  • Take personal calls in private
  • Avoid offensive language
  • Use texting as a quick and quiet alternative to talking on the phone
  • Do not use cell phone cameras (to protect everyone’s privacy)
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Put Your Cell Phone Policy in Writing


To ensure that your cell phone policy at work is understood and followed, put it in writing. You can search for a cell phone policy template online or you can create one yourself. Whichever option you choose make sure you spell out your terms in clear, unambiguous language. Be sure to include the rationale for each term you outline, such as ensuring safety or maintaining productivity.


Include the disciplinary actions that will follow if policy terms are violated. This could include multiple stages (verbal warning, written warning and final warning) and may include a cell phone ban if usage interferes with business operations and the possibility of termination if use causes an accident or violates the company’s confidentiality policy.


Require all employees to review and sign the policy, indicating that they understand the policy terms and the consequences of violations.

Lead by Example


If you want your employees to adopt new cell phone habits, you must be impeccable in modeling the behavior you wish to cultivate. If you’re taking personal calls or texting during meetings, your employees won’t take your cell phone policy very seriously. Be a stellar role model, and your employees will be more likely to follow suit.

Enforce Your Policy

Enforce your policy consistently and uniformly. Simply walking around the workplace can be an effective way of curbing cell phone use, but beware of overdoing it. Hovering can be perceived as micromanagement, breeding resentment among employees and ultimately backfiring.

You may need to issue daily reminders at first. If problems persist after a provisional period of time and cause workplace disruptions or a decline in productivity, it may be time for a more serious conversation with those employees whose cell phone habits are more entrenched.

Take Disciplinary Action
When taking disciplinary action, follow the standard progression of issuing a verbal warning, written warning and final warning before terminating an employee. Document your discussions thoroughly and be as fair as possible in order to reduce the risk of legal repercussions. The Hartford’s Small Business Owner’s Playbook shares some professional HR best practices you might consider if termination becomes necessary.
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We had the sweetest couple. They have a paralyzed dog with a catheter that had to get it replaced. It had wheels, not so much a wheelchair, so she can get around. The time and money and love they put into caring for her and similar experiences make people like the girl who can't be ripped away from her phone worth it. Plus, I don't think we have any euthanasia's today. I don't think I'll ever get used to those. If my biggest problems are side effects from a BP pill and a social media dependent coworker, I'm in much better shape than this time last year. You guys certainly helped, whether through advice, funny posts, or just being around, so thank you. Here's hoping nobody shows up and sticks an uncovered soup bowl full of urine in my hands again lmao.
 
Need more coworker advice: while I was filling six prescriptions, scheduling multiple check ups, and putting away a dozen charts.....she literally drew a picture of a sunset. I'm not going to be petty and say anything about her appearance. I won't say anything identifying about her or post pics. Just please, for the love of God, how do I get her to pull her weight?
 
Thought of that. She's allergic to penicillin. But it just gives her a rash :( Ok, who the fuck hires a secretary who's half deaf? She can't hear the phone ring half the time! Fuck lol.........
Ok, I'm giving her the benefit of a doubt, cuz who would lie about a disability? But, she hears it just fine when I'm nowhere near it or if there's someone important around
 
Haven't posted in a bit. Doing pretty well, took steps to avoid people I can't stand interacting with, so I'm not bursting full of hatred anymore. Cat and bunny are doing great, I'm good medically. Last BP was 112/70 :) I did post a lot of statements about people I couldn't stand at work that could have rubbed people that had nothing to do with the situation the wrong way, my apologies. I should have just gone elsewhere, asap, as it's REALLY easy to find work for me. It was immature and could have been handled differently. Anyway, merry late Christmas, happy new year:)
 
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