Well, josh is my husbands brother so i knew him quite well. The girlfriend, who is not so innocent at all, was NOT controlled by Josh. She lied to authorities and said she was being beaten by him also. It's all bull shit. Josh was a loving man but had a lot of things on his mind. Anyways, something happened between josh and alexis, which ended up with the baby being killed. THE BABIES OWN MOTHER SUGGESTS TO DUMP THE BODY. Josh and Alexis get into a car with the baby, and drive the child an hour away, then dump the body. THIS WAS NOT ALL JOSH'S IDEA. after that, josh and alexis went to a motel. Josh leaves the motel and gets pulled over with weed and a pipe and gets put into a jail cell. he then calls his aunt and directs her to pick up his girlfriend from the motel. His aunt agrees, goes to get her, and then asks where her child is due to the fact that Alexis' parents had been looking for Alexis and the baby. Alexis lies and says the baby is with her parents. Eventually the aunt finds out it's a lie and calls the police to report the child missing. It was at that point that josh confessed to the murder. It's still all foggy for everyone until we hear josh's complete side of the story, but this is what I've gathered from the family and my husband. Our hearts are shattered and we are all very confused as to what happened, hopefully the fog clears soon.of course my heart goes out to the grieving family and that beautiful child, but I'm pissed that Alexis will not admit that she hated being around her baby and that she helped dump the body.