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Tiana McElveen, a former day care worker, has been arrested after being accused of hitting and tossing a 5-year-old child.

McElveen, 24, has been charged with unlawful conduct towards a child.

Surveillance video shows two children reportedly getting into an altercation over a toy when McElveen appeared to have struck one of the children in the face before tossing him to the ground twice.

She has since been terminated from her position at the facility and the Department of Social Services has been notified.

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I found more info in this news report:


McElveen was fired last Friday over a separate incident after staffers confronted her about leaving food on the ground for children to 'eat like dogs'


Also found more info here, including the daycare's response to a news organization.




Per the explanation in the video, the attack was reported by a different employee only after the attacker was fired over the food incident.

In the assault video, she did indeed do this in front of another staffer. Sup with that? Wasn't that staffer supposed to report the abuse immediately? Was the person who reported the attack the other staffer who was present (and maybe was primarily aiming to cover her ass, having had no plan to report it otherwise, or was just grinding the boot in a bit deeper for personal reasons), or was it a third party who found out about the incident via hearsay?

The name of the daycare is being reported as "Care-A-Lot Daycare Center". That name comes up a lot in Google, it's also all over Facebook, apparently. I'll guess it is a franchise. The youtube video lists the address as 4200 block of Thomas Sumter Highway. That matches web site below, including address:

http://care-a-lotdaycare.com/

Does it mean anything that the kid in the video appears to be white while both the adult attacker and the witness (who appears to have not initially been planning to report the attack) were black? The photos page on the above site is suggestive of a mixed-race child attendance (could swing one way or the other in terms of majority but I can't tell for sure, pics can be set up to portray either way). Did she hit any other children and if so, what were the races of the other kids she assaulted?

All of this put together, does this mean anything for how safe parents should feel about leaving white or light-colored kids at otherwise-professional daycare centers if the caretakers are primarily black? (some mixed-race couples make for pretty light-skinned kids with otherwise African-American facial features).

Also, I wonder how long has the attacker been working there?

.... lot of inferences and questions, here!

I've felt for a long time that parents must have srs talks with their kids about schools and daycares, assuming they attend those (heh). Repeated talks. The kinds of talks that makes kids unable to forget.

Kids need to be hardened against physical and sexual abuse in such places. They must be taught that events involving anyone viewing or touching areas that are normally covered by a bathing suit must be reported back to the parents, regardless of if the areas are on the child or an adult. Also they must be taught that it does not matter if the child feels they in some sense participated in the event.​
They must also be taught that any physical attack by an adult must be reported back to the parents, and crucially, it doesn't matter if the kid believes they 'deserved' it, or, witnessed an assault where the other kid 'deserved' it.​
If the premise isn't taught this way, the kids won't report events if the adult manipulates them into feeling like a participant or otherwise feeling like a guilty party, which practically all of the abusers will do.​
 
Does it mean anything that the kid in the video appears to be white while both the adult attacker and the witness (who appears to have not initially been planning to report the attack) were black?
Really? You're gonna accuse her of being racist? You're really making this about race? Nah, she's just a run-of-the-mill pos. Period. Plus, I'm guessing she made ALL the kids eat off the floor like dogs.
 
Really? You're gonna accuse her of being racist? You're really making this about race? Nah, she's just a run-of-the-mill

It was posed as a question and I think it's a valid question, and that none of us has the answer at this time. It's possible or likely that we'll never have the answer.

If it had been reversed and it was a possible Karen abusing a black child while a white adult witness looked on, and the witness didn't even report the attack, you can BET YOUR ASS I would also be wondering wtf I was seeing.

pos. Period. Plus, I'm guessing she made ALL the kids eat off the floor like dogs.

We can agree on that at least =p .
 
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I doubt there was a racial component to the abuse.

I have a feeling she mistreated many children and other staff members looked the other way until it put their jobs in jeopardy.

One of the easiest and hardest jobs to do in daycare work (as well as home health care).

Not everyone is equipped with the patience or understanding to deal with children who are learning to control and act out against their environment and others.

There was a white daycare worker who started abusing kids on her 3rd day of work it is just not a job for everyone.
 
The State of South Carolina VS Tiana Darriell Mcelveen

Credit for Time Served 6 years, Probation 3 Years
Central Registry Child Abuse and Neglect
 
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