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Lori Ruff True Identity Baffles Ex-husband, Authorities Years After Her Suicide

theres a crazy cunt thats been stalking me, her and i were best friends slash girlfriends for like 5 years back in my gutter punk days when we both were living on the streets. then she fakes her death, changes her name, moves outta state, only to show up in a bus seat right across from me about 5 years later, leaning over and staring at me. almost gave me a fucking heart attack. anyway when i said i didnt wanna get back together with her, she flipped the fuck out, told everyone i was a rapist but even worse that i killed the love of my life (who really died of a heroin od back in '06 while i was omw home from work, and she wasnt even in the state). the love of my life whose name is tatted all big across my upper back, who i even named my clothing business after! she also tried telling ppl that i killed a girlfriend of hers who i later saw walking around alive and well. this bitch is crazy! so it turns out that this crazy cunt was also using a false name when i had first met her. ooh i wish i could post her names and pic up here, because for some reason, even though i want nothing to do w her ever again, part of me still wonders often, what are u running from, u psycho bitch?!? but i'm a person who takes stuff pretty personally. especially when im being stalked and accused of rape and murder. scariest part is, after she was leaving me threatening voicemails, she actually almost killed a chick. stabbed her in the chest and ripped the knife down to her cunt. the other scariest part is that after she got outta prison a year and a half (!!!) later, she didnt realize i was actually living about 8 blocks away from her...
 
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Holy wall of words...

And I have to ask, what exactly did that wall of words have to do with this thread? I don't get it? Maybe I need more caffeine?
 
alifinrox said:
theres a crazy cunt thats been stalking me, her and i were best friends slash girlfriends for like 5 years back in my gutter punk days when we both were living on the streets. then she fakes her death, changes her name, moves outta state, only to show up in a bus seat right across from me about 5 years later, leaning over and staring at me. almost gave me a fucking heart attack. anyway when i said i didnt wanna get back together with her, she flipped the fuck out, told everyone i was a rapist but even worse that i killed the love of my life (who really died of a heroin od back in '06 while i was omw home from work, and she wasnt even in the state). the love of my life whose name is tatted all big across my upper back, who i even named my clothing business after! she also tried telling ppl that i killed a girlfriend of hers who i later saw walking around alive and well. this bitch is crazy! so it turns out that this crazy cunt was also using a false name when i had first met her. ooh i wish i could post her names and pic up here, because for some reason, even though i want nothing to do w her ever again, part of me still wonders often, what are u running from, u psycho bitch?!? but i'm a person who takes stuff pretty personally. especially when im being stalked and accused of rape and murder. scariest part is, after she was leaving me threatening voicemails, she actually almost killed a chick. stabbed her in the chest and ripped the knife down to her cunt. the other scariest part is that after she got outta prison a year and a half (!!!) later, she didnt realize i was actually living about 8 blocks away from her...
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And I thought I was having a massive brain fart this morning. You win.
 
Krystal said:
Holy wall of words...

And I have to ask, what exactly did that wall of words have to do with this thread? I don't get it? Maybe I need more caffeine?
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LOL! My thought, too. Took 3 re-reads to figure out that they were sharing an experience about someone who did the "fake name, who the hell is this person really" thing.

Can I just say that I, personally, take offense at the va-jay-jay being called the "cunt", thank you very much. Kinda gives off the misogynistic asshole vibe, if I do say so myself.
Not the way to make friends around here, Pal.
 
Thanks, Nell!
Nah, now that they are side-by-side, I guess that little theory has been refuted.
Man, this is killing me! LOL. I've had a dozen theories..running from an abusive family is the main one, but now leaning away from the cult side and more toward the physically-or-sexually abusive parents side, just because of Occam's Razor. She said she had a horrible childhood, made her disappearance and new identity at 18 (or thereabouts), became a stripper for a while, and did not want to talk about it. Simplest explanation is that her answer was truthful.
A whole lot of strippers, prostitutes etc come from a background of sexual abuse, so wouldn't be surprising to me.
I do hope someone solves this...the suspense is killing me! LOL
 
nopatience said:
And I thought I was having a massive brain fart this morning. You win.
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hmm dont see how 'brain fart' applies since my comment went along with the topic, and all the sentences were coherent. now if you want to accuse me of having a big mouth however then i would be forced to agree...
 
Krystal said:
Holy wall of words...

And I have to ask, what exactly did that wall of words have to do with this thread? I don't get it? Maybe I need more caffeine?
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well this story reminded me of my story, since it was about a mystery woman and how even those who were supposedly closest to her had no clue who she even was.
there were multiple names in multiple states, they were even both strippers. and people left behind wondering what secrets she was carrying.
so, sry to trip u up but i thought instantly of my story when i saw this one. fuck idk why i posted. i guess maybe i was wondering if i would maybe hear from someone who had the same experience, maybe even someone who knew recognized who i was talking about.
or maybe i just posted because this type of story is so rare and i can identify with it.
either way, i hope that clears it up. and i hope you appreciate my paragraphs too!
but sorry, i'm not capitalizing for anybody.
 
lapsus.lingua said:
LOL! My thought, too. Took 3 re-reads to figure out that they were sharing an experience about someone who did the "fake name, who the hell is this person really" thing.

Can I just say that I, personally, take offense at the va-jay-jay being called the "cunt", thank you very much. Kinda gives off the misogynistic asshole vibe, if I do say so myself.
Not the way to make friends around here, Pal.
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well i didnt exactly think people around here would be offended by the word cunt. personally, i love it. so much more vulgar, really gets to the point. and dont worry.. i'm starting to think that maybe this place is just gonna be one more notch on my 'places and people i dont fit in with' bed. which really sucks because i really am a thoughtful talented genuine honest person, and also because i thought you all were more open minded over here.
 
alifinrox said:
well i didnt exactly think people around here would be offended by the word cunt. personally, i love it. so much more vulgar, really gets to the point. and dont worry.. i'm starting to think that maybe this place is just gonna be one more notch on my 'places and people i dont fit in with' bed. which really sucks because i really am a thoughtful talented genuine honest person, and also because i thought you all were more open minded over here.
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Lots of people use the word cunt around these parts, usually its while calling someone a cunt.... Sounds like you dated a fucking cunt, I don't envy you lol
 
alifinrox said:
well i didnt exactly think people around here would be offended by the word cunt. personally, i love it. so much more vulgar, really gets to the point. and dont worry.. i'm starting to think that maybe this place is just gonna be one more notch on my 'places and people i dont fit in with' bed. which really sucks because i really am a thoughtful talented genuine honest person, and also because i thought you all were more open minded over here.
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This sounds bratty

And I like the word cunt.
 
kitcatmcgee said:
Lots of people use the word cunt around these parts, usually its while calling someone a cunt.... Sounds like you dated a fucking cunt, I don't envy you lol
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yeah, the thing is, she even refers to herself as 'a sick cunt'. when i was kickin it with her she was completely different. then there was a period of time where i didnt see her for awhile, then she faked her death. 5 years later when i saw her again she might as well have died- she was a skinny, hollow, psychotic version of her former self. an empty fucking shell. what had happened is i guess she had gotten into pills, benzos specifically. i guess she started going around crying rape to get pills, and theyve got her so messed up, shes always playing the victim and even believes her own lies. she alone is the reason i will never fuck with a benzo bitch.
 
alifinrox said:
hmm dont see how 'brain fart' applies since my comment went along with the topic, and all the sentences were coherent. now if you want to accuse me of having a big mouth however then i would be forced to agree...
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Not sure about coherent seeing as how it was one long ass run on sentence without any punctuation, but you seem fun. Hope to see you around. :)
 
nopatience said:
Not sure about coherent seeing as how it was one long ass run on sentence without any punctuation, but you seem fun. Hope to see you around. :)
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actually, 14 sentences if i counted right. but i appreciate the rest though! i thought i would fit in well here because a prominent part of me is brash and vulgar.i'm on here all the time anyway, being the death-desensitized, true crime junkie that i am. i even submitted my first story for DD the other day, and i'm so proud of myself! :) anyway, i was hoping things could go well here for me, as in i dont get the same backlash i generally got in beauty school and even with my addict friends who seem intimidated by the fact that i'm honest and passionate about my beliefs and values, i speak my mind and am actually bettering myself in life. to me it's their loss. but yeah, feel free to say hi anytime!
 
Very interesting case .

Usually when someone assumes a new identity like this - as in secretly - it's only for certain reasons, like running from their past or running from themselves.

Something struck me about the story - it's only small but it gives me a clue . That is 'Jane Doe' didn't want her in -laws alone with the baby .

This would either be because of how the in-laws were but I think probably more because of something that happened to her and she wanted to protect her baby above all costs .

I don't get the criminal vibe with this lady but of course I can be wrong .

The fact she killed herself shows she was in great mental pain .

I think the in-laws didn't like this woman regardless and are slightly more concerned about being duped and finding out her story , than looking for her true past to help the child Jane Doe left behind.

It's all a bit sad really .

The religion aspect is intriguing . Could be a lead.

We may never know but stranger things have happened- (remember Sharon Marshall and how her story finally came out ?)
 
alifinrox said:
theres a crazy cunt thats been stalking me, her and i were best friends slash girlfriends for like 5 years back in my gutter punk days when we both were living on the streets. then she fakes her death, changes her name, moves outta state, only to show up in a bus seat right across from me about 5 years later, leaning over and staring at me. almost gave me a fucking heart attack. anyway when i said i didnt wanna get back together with her, she flipped the fuck out, told everyone i was a rapist but even worse that i killed the love of my life (who really died of a heroin od back in '06 while i was omw home from work, and she wasnt even in the state). the love of my life whose name is tatted all big across my upper back, who i even named my clothing business after! she also tried telling ppl that i killed a girlfriend of hers who i later saw walking around alive and well. this bitch is crazy! so it turns out that this crazy cunt was also using a false name when i had first met her. ooh i wish i could post her names and pic up here, because for some reason, even though i want nothing to do w her ever again, part of me still wonders often, what are u running from, u psycho bitch?!? but i'm a person who takes stuff pretty personally. especially when im being stalked and accused of rape and murder. scariest part is, after she was leaving me threatening voicemails, she actually almost killed a chick. stabbed her in the chest and ripped the knife down to her cunt. the other scariest part is that after she got outta prison a year and a half (!!!) later, she didnt realize i was actually living about 8 blocks away from her...
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Nah ahh
 
alifinrox said:
well this story reminded me of my story, since it was about a mystery woman and how even those who were supposedly closest to her had no clue who she even was.
there were multiple names in multiple states, they were even both strippers. and people left behind wondering what secrets she was carrying.
so, sry to trip u up but i thought instantly of my story when i saw this one. fuck idk why i posted. i guess maybe i was wondering if i would maybe hear from someone who had the same experience, maybe even someone who knew recognized who i was talking about.
or maybe i just posted because this type of story is so rare and i can identify with it.
either way, i hope that clears it up. and i hope you appreciate my paragraphs too!
but sorry, i'm not capitalizing for anybody.
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Thank you for clearing it up for me:)

And stick around, even if you won't capitalize. Bitch.;) I tend to be a Grammar Nazi, a lot. You'll learn to ignore it and I'll learn to look past the lack of capitalization, promise.:smug:
 
Who was the girl who disappeared, and then they thought they found photos of her tied up in van? This woman looks like the photos I remember
 
Whisper said:
Inside a bedroom closet, in a strongbox Blake had always been forbidden to touch by his wife, they uncovered her long-kept secrets.
Out poured her Idaho ID reading Becky Sue Turner, along with a copy of the deceased child's birth certificate and scraps of paper, one containing the name of an attorney and the words "402 months."
It still clearly didn't add up to anyone.
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Why save all this shit if she was so hellbent on keeping her life a secret? Did she deep down have some desire to come clean, or did she on some level get off on the con?

I don't get why people are so critical of the in laws. What's described in that article doesn't sound too different from experiences perfectly sane, normal folks i know have had. Pretty typical "at odds" family drama nonsense, that if anything sounds like it was exacerbated by the nutty jane doe.

My guess is that the answer isn't nearly as exciting as any of the theories here. She very well may have never been abused, or involved in a crime, or anything of that nature. She could simply have been a damage case. Nutbags do weird shit.

And if it was criminal related, it may not have been anything as sexy as a murder, she could have just owed money to somebody, either on the streets or via a court ruling.
 
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