for the people that do say "she spread her legs now it is her responsibility" they forget it takes 2 ... don't they realize that "he sticked his wick now it is his responsibility too"... way back when i taught my kids , both boys and girls", it was their responsibility if it ended in pregnancy,,, boy if their is the tiniest chance it is yours then it is yours,, be prepared to pay for not only when the baby is born but also through out the pregnancy,,,, she didn't create that live by herself she doesn't deserve to have full responsibility.... back then girls couldn't just go on birthcontrol or have abortions without a good medical reason

.... so girls if it isn't wrapped it is a no go (now it would be make sure you are on b/c of some sort but also if it isn't wrapped don't take a chance in getting more than what you bargained for... boys if you can' keep it wrap keep it in your pants not only will it help where pregnancy is concerned but also protect you from possible deases..... b/c is the responsibility of both parties not just the female
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save havens are wonderful but it should be amended to include babies up to one year because some people do find out for any number of reasons that they can't make it... their choices would be made so much easier without the pressures of family, friends but most of all children services to keep your baby, that decision should be yours and yours only if the father of the child doesn't share the responsibilities with you...