thebooblady
Trusted Member
I'm glad you're not offended, I am.
As for my picture, why would mine be relevant? I'm not an ugly dude, but I'm not attractive, either. I've said this a hundred times in my blogs. I've been extremely blessed to have dated so many absolutely gorgeous women in my life, and I know NOT ONE OF THEM have dated me for my looks. THey see me, because I am more than your average dude, and I am incredibly exciting. I am brilliant, and I may not have anything more than a tenth grade education, but I began my own business that brought in hordes of money for a while, and when it collapsed because of the housing crisis, I went to school and am now poised to move to Los Angeles, and with several promising leads, mind you.
I almost ALWAYS win...with everything except for love. That's my fucking vice.
That being said, I do NOT want you to think I am criticizing you personally. On a PERSONAL note, I love what you have with your man, I love your ferocity for what he and you share with each other, I love it to bits. I ENVY you there....I want THAT from my hotmamma one day. And fuck fat, I have NEVER made fun of someone's weight. EVER. I have said people are unattractive, but I will not sit here and make racial or weight jabs, that disgusts me. And for the record, some of the people I have loved most in life have had weight problems, and incredibly small breasts...I'm talking only nipples, ok? I don't care about that. Attractive women find me, and I'm thankful for that, but I won't say no to an unattractive one if I like her.
THe best part of a woman to me, thebooblady, is her fucking MIND, capiche? I aint kidding you there, yo. That's my thang. A strong woman, a smart woman, makes....my....heart MELT. I've dumped MEGA HOTTIES because I can't talk to them, ok?
You and your dude are fine, and I wont judge what you have. I dont give a fuck if he's fat, chunky, thin, sexy, or a fucking serial killer on his spare time.
But honey, the bottom line is you asked me to tell you why, and in my opinion, and I'd wager almost the rest of the free world's, almost every man would choose Jasmine over you.
Would most ladies choose Vin Diesel over me? You betcha.
So what's your point with all of this?
It's not just my current man, but every other man I have been with as well. but, Vin Diesel? Yuck! IMO. I'm more attracted to Robert De Niro or Jack Nicholson..a least they can act.
I didn't really have a point, but I do now and I know that many beautiful women and many unnattractive women have so little self-esteem that they are attracted to men who are nothing but trouble. A self respecting woman, beautiful, smart, loyal, etc is less likely to hook up with a man whose life is always in turmoil. Perhaps that is where Mrs. Silicone went wrong?